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Sometimes, the knowledge that a spouse is cheating is sudden and obvious -- for instance, discovering the errant couple in mid-tryst. Other times, you may need to look for signs that your partner is including an affair in his or her daily life. Signs of a cheating spouse may include: -- Sudden interest in appearance, including showering more often and going to the gym.
-- Unusual loss of interest in sex OR abrupt revival of sexual desire.
-- Suddenly showering you with gifts (usually motivated by guilt).
-- Picking fights with you (thus giving him or her a reason to storm out of the house and meet a lover).
-- Emotional disturbances such as moodiness, sleep problems, inattention to work or children. -- Money being spent that isn't well accounted for.
What about excessive time online and an abnormal interest in checking e-mails or secretive IMs on MSN or Yahoo Messenger? Or the sudden purchase of a Webcam, or visits to travel sites such as Expedia or Travelocity?
Those are some definite tell tale signs of infidelity, but on the other hang, the excessive time online could also mean numerous things as well.