Honesty as a Weapon

If you and your partner are fighting, honesty can be a brutal weapon. Saying things like "my ex was always better in bed than you are" or "Your friend told me she didn´t want to spend time with you any more" might be trust/index.html">honest, but it is incredibly painful to hear things like this in such a blunt and pointed manner.

Look through the argument tips for help keeping your arguments constructive, and do not use honesty as a whip. It will keep you both from being honest later on, if you see honesty in your relationship as something that is harmful.